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43:57 There is still a lot of shame and stigma and secrecy around sexuality in America. And if you can't talk about something then you can't teach about it, you can't learn about it, you can't argue, you can't challenge your own thinking. The truth is we're afraid of the wrong things... and as a result we set our kids up for problems.
53:38 Guilty people are easy to control and sexuality is an easy way to constantly make people to feel guilty... and needy... I'm afraid to say that the church has often used that to enhance its own power and control over people...
18:35 Linguistic research group REAL REASON discovered that certain words have hidden meanings... we notice a pattern, how people talk about sexuality. The term abstinence carries with it with a lot of baggage... such as illicit drugs, alcohol, addiction - we see pattern in the language... putting sex in the same category as cocaine, heroin, contaminate, filthy language, polluting young minds - it's scary, threatening, it's dangerous, compulsive. We paint a picture of sex as something we need to be wrestled with, destroyed and defeated.
00:32 - John Goodman "Roseanne" jokes about sex.
07:39 - CARTOON: teacher showing girls SEX = DISEASE.
08:31 - Abstinence report, don't work. Misleading.
09:55 - LA has specialized teen pregnancy high school. Everyday 2400 teen gets pregnant, cost tax payer 9 billion dollars a year.
12:47 - Four ways to get HIV, blood, semen, vaginal secretion, breast milk.
17:11 - 85% American parents want children to receive comprehensive sex education.
17:50 - Palin's daughter preach abstinence but do-as-I-say-but-don't-do-as-I-do.
18:08 - It's like we're a nation that is culturally disabled about this subject. We don't know how to think about it, we don't know how to talk about it, we don't know where to begin. It's like we totally lost our common sense. Because we don't know how to grab our heads about this subject.
21:07 Ann raised in a conservative Michigan background but married a Dutchman. Living in Holland, she and her husband talk about how sex is a dinner table subject, as common as any other subjects. Kids trust their parents more because they're being practical, real, supportive.
28:09 Mom support her kid to have sex at home, rather than outside in the park or alleys can be dangerous. Using one's own bedroom is much more safer. Freedom gives kids time and space to practice responsibility. Practice, practice before independence.
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30:06 Condoms European vs. America. BIG DIFFERENCE.
31:05 If a guy don't carry a condom... "okay, bye -- see you..." nice to meet you. Meanwhile... Back in America... "if I met a guy with a condom in his wallet..." I would just have a completely different view of him... I would run... I think he's a pervert... I think he's a douche bag... I don't think I'll be hanging with someone who's that ready... If it's a girl with a condom... I would think she's a slut, easy... sleazy... she must be loose... she's getting around, looking for action. I would immediately like put my guards up...
35:30 Teen girls pledging abstinence... are just as likely to have sex than those who don't... difference is, those that pledge are LESS likely to use condom or forms of birth control.
52:58 Young people have a right to full and truthful information to what I believe is a wonderful God given gift, our human sexuality... 53:38 Guilty people are easy to control and sexuality is an easy way to constantly make people to feel guilty... and needy... I'm afraid to say that the church has often used that to enhance its own power and control over people... instead of stepping back and say, what's the best thing for our young people... Our young people are in crisis and we're not admitting it. And the church has been part of that denial process. What we're trying to do is... ah ha... the church has also be part of that solution.
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